Safety Tips
Your safety is our priority. Follow these guidelines to protect yourself while searching for your life partner on Raibar.
Islamic Guidelines for Matrimonial Search
As a platform serving the Muslim community, we encourage following Islamic principles throughout your search for a spouse:
- Seek marriage with the intention of pleasing Allah (SWT)
- Maintain modesty in all interactions
- Be truthful in your profile and communications
- Involve your Wali (guardian) in the process
- Meet with a Mahram present when possible
- Pray Istikhara when considering a potential spouse
- Focus on character, deen, and compatibility
Involve Your Family
In accordance with Islamic principles, we strongly encourage involving your Mahram or a trusted family member in your search. They can provide guidance, verify information, and ensure meetings are conducted appropriately.
- Share your profile activity with a trusted family member
- Have a Mahram present during initial video calls or meetings
- Discuss potential matches with your parents or guardians
- Use the Mahram contact feature for family-to-family communication
Protect Your Privacy
Be mindful of the personal information you share online. While building trust is important, it should happen gradually as you get to know someone.
- Don't share your home address, workplace address, or financial details early on
- Use the platform's messaging system rather than personal phone numbers initially
- Be cautious about sharing photos that reveal identifying locations
- Mark sensitive photos as private until you're comfortable sharing
Communicate Safely
Keep conversations purposeful and focused on understanding compatibility for marriage. Be wary of anyone who rushes the process or makes you uncomfortable.
- Keep initial conversations on the Raibar platform
- Be cautious of anyone who pressures you to move to other platforms quickly
- Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, it probably is
- Report any inappropriate messages or behaviour immediately
Meet Safely
When you're ready to meet in person, prioritise your safety by choosing public places and informing others of your plans.
- Always meet in a public place for initial meetings
- Have a Mahram or family member accompany you
- Inform someone you trust about your meeting plans
- Arrange your own transportation to and from meetings
- Consider meeting at a mosque or community centre
Recognise Red Flags
Be aware of warning signs that may indicate someone isn't who they claim to be or has dishonest intentions.
- Requests for money or financial assistance
- Reluctance to involve family members
- Inconsistent stories or information
- Pressure to make quick decisions
- Avoiding video calls or in-person meetings
- Unwillingness to provide verifiable information
Protect Your Account
Keep your Raibar account secure to prevent unauthorised access and protect your personal information.
- Use a strong, unique password
- Don't share your login credentials with anyone
- Log out when using shared devices
- Regularly review your account activity
Report Suspicious Activity
If you encounter any suspicious behaviour, harassment, or believe someone is misrepresenting themselves, please report it immediately. Your report helps keep our community safe.
Remember, while we strive to verify profiles and maintain a safe platform, the ultimate responsibility for your safety lies with you. Trust your instincts, involve your family, and take your time getting to know potential matches.
May Allah (SWT) bless your search with success and grant you a righteous spouse.